I had never stopped to think about what I wanted, let alone know how to communicate it! Maybe this has happened to you too.
If any of those statements sound familiar, you are in the right place! And it’s not your fault.
Communicating about sex is hard! It can feel awkward and uncomfortable because no one teaches us how to do it well.
Now that I work closely with women to help them transform their sex lives, I realize this is super common! Many people don’t know what they want in the bedroom. And if you think about it, it’s not that surprising. Most of us didn’t grow up with a healthy sex education. In fact, many people carry a lot of shame when it comes to sex. So, the idea of simply talking about being sexual can make us feel like we are doing something bad or wrong.
So, if asking for what you want in the bedroom is a big challenge for you, you are not alone!
Although communicating about sex is not something we are taught in school, it’s probably one of the most valuable skills you can learn when it comes to your relationship.
We’ve all heard that stating our wants is a crucial sexual communication skill. And it’s true — it is! It’s up to each of us to take responsibility for our own pleasure and fill our partners in on what we’d like from them. Speaking up about a new turn-on, or wanting to try new positions can increase intimacy, and even rekindle the spark if things have plateaued in the bedroom.
But that being said, asking for what you want is a skill that requires some finesse. Just as there are certain rules for good communication, there are guidelines for asking for what you want. If you don’t practice good communication, it doesn’t exactly inspire your partner to fulfill your desires.
Your partner isn’t a mind reader, and neither are you. To know how to turn each other’s gears just right, you’ll need to create a user manual.
This crash course is jam-packed with practical, actionable techniques for discovering what you want in the bedroom and asking for it with confidence and ease.
In this program, I will guide you through exercises to help you figure out exactly how to answer the question “What do you want?” without feeling awkward or embarrassed.
I’ll take you from confused and anxious to comfortable and confident – even if you have no idea where to start!
And it’s designed for you to complete quickly, that’s why I am calling it a “crash” course. I know you want to communicate confidently about sex, and I also know you are busy! I don’t want to bog you down with hours and hours of content. So, each lesson is short and to the point so that you learn what you need to and can implement it right away! You are going to get the maximum bang for your buck!
The way you think about sex is critical when it comes to figuring out what you want in the bedroom. In this module, you’ll learn how to create a mindset around sex that makes it easier to discover your authentic sexual self.
I’ll also show you why talking about sex is so important! Contrary to what we’ve been told about sex, it doesn’t happen naturally. Communication is required.
You’ll leave this lesson feeling empowered and energized, ready to tackle sex talks with your partner!
Get ready to be able to answer the question, “What do you want?” in this module.
I will give you actionable tips to help you discover exactly what you want in the bedroom.
No more feeling overwhelmed or shutting down when asked about your desires!
Most of us struggle with communication in many areas of our relationship, so of course talking about a particularly vulnerable topic like sex is going to feel even harder.
In this module, I will give you helpful suggestions to make those sexy conversations feel more productive and less awkward.
You’ll leave this module feeling super confident and ready to talk it up!
Another major part of mastering the art of sexual communication is knowing how to give feedback in a way that doesn’t hurt your partner’s feelings.
In this module, I will teach you techniques on how to give feedback in a manner that makes your partner feel motivated to keep giving you more.
✨ Confidence is contagious ✨
Once you gain the confidence to ask for what you want in the bedroom, it spills over into every aspect of your life. Watch as you release your insecurities and become the most authentic, sexy version of yourself at home, at work, and in social situations.